Before taking action, honestly assess if the relationship is fixable and healthy.
Most experts recommend a period of with zero communication.
Do not attempt to reconcile if there was physical or emotional abuse, or if you are only seeking them out of loneliness or "backsliding" into a bad habit. 2. Implement the "No Contact Rule"
Getting back with an ex is a journey of personal transformation rather than just a set of "tricks". Success often depends on moving from a place of desperation to a place of self-respect and emotional stability. 1. Evaluate the "Why"
The breakup was due to external timing or situational stress, and both partners have since grown.