If they get loud, you get quieter. It makes them look irrational and gives you the moral high ground.
A "win" can also be refusing to participate in a circular, bad-faith argument. How to Win Every Argument
Once they agree that you understand them perfectly, they lower their guard. You then dismantle that "strong" version with a single, sharp counter-point. 4. Narrow the Scope If they get loud, you get quieter
Most arguments are framed as Binary (A vs. B). You win by finding Option C. If they get loud