Shepherding A Child's Heart By Tedd Trip -
Most parenting techniques focus on "behavior modification"—getting a child to act a certain way through rewards or punishments. Tripp suggests this is superficial. If you change the behavior without reaching the heart, you are simply training a child in hypocrisy.
Focusing on the "why" and developing godly traits. Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Trip
The goal of authority is to provide protection and direction, helping the child eventually transition from being under parental authority to being under God’s authority. 4. Communication as Shepherding Focusing on the "why" and developing godly traits
Moving toward a mentoring relationship as the teen learns to shepherd their own heart before God. 6. The Gospel Focus you cannot control every influence
Tripp acknowledges that children are influenced by their environment (home life, structure, trauma, and blessings). However, he emphasizes that the child's to these influences is determined by their heart. As a parent, you cannot control every influence, but you can shepherd how they process them. 3. God-Given Authority The book emphasizes that parents act as God’s agents .