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Sometimes the "void" of not being understood can be partially filled by validating yourself. You don't always need a witness to make your feelings real. Summary Table: Closing the Gap

Start the conversation by saying: "I don’t need a solution right now; I just need you to hear how I’m feeling so I don’t feel alone in this." you_dont_understand_me

If they feel responsible for your pain, they may "shut down" or deflect to avoid feeling like a "bad person." Sometimes the "void" of not being understood can